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You keep many conversations going at the same time, with multiple women, and not a single one of them is just a friend — you openly flirt with them all. You go on a first date, and it goes well, but instead of asking her out again next weekend, you schedule another first date with somebody else. You just want to see what you might been missing out on before investing more time and effort into that first relationship. If your goal is a committed relationship with a serious girlfriend, you have to focus on one woman at a time. Spend your time and energy talking to her, getting to know her. If the first sate went well, ask her out on a second date already.

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I Don’t Have A Girlfriend And I’m Not Looking For One

You keep many conversations going at the same time, with multiple women, and not a single one of them is just a friend — you openly flirt with them all. You go on a first date, and it goes well, but instead of asking her out again next weekend, you schedule another first date with somebody else. You just want to see what you might been missing out on before investing more time and effort into that first relationship.

If your goal is a committed relationship with a serious girlfriend, you have to focus on one woman at a time. Spend your time and energy talking to her, getting to know her. If the first sate went well, ask her out on a second date already. You want a girlfriend — tomorrow. So you come on too strong on first dates. You pine over women you barely know, you let your heart ache for them even before you know if you two have any potential whatsoever.

You scare women away with how clingy you are. You text them all day until they start wondering if you have a life. Focus is good, fixation and obsession are not. You did absolutely nothing wrong. Your exes are crazy, all of them. As long as you refuse to admit — and learn from — your mistakes, you will continue to repeat them, and your relationships will continue to suffer from the same old issues you were supposed to have fixed a long time ago. You know how to carry an interesting conversation, and you can make people laugh.

Not all the time, but often enough. You double down on your flaws while undermining your best qualities. You expect them to be perfect, and your relationship to run smoothly, so you have little patience to work things out, to negotiate, to compromise.

You end up back at the dating market almost as soon as you leave it, feeling more discouraged than you should. Your perception of the lack of valuable partners is completely distorted by how you much you expect of the people you date. Relationships are about adjusting course as you go. You equate being single with being miserable. You let your loneliness define you in a way nothing else ever has. The only salvation for you is a partner.

She will look into your eyes and see your soul. You expect dating and having a relationship to be as easy as breathing — and whatever issues you have along the way to be resolved in the cutest possible way, like in the movies.

You expect her to buy a plane ticket and chase you down the airport just to tell you how much she loves you. Spoiler alert: that never, ever happens in real life.

Most girls just want you to send them a text. Just ask them out. If it goes well, ask them out again. Keep in touch. Ask her about her day, her life, her projects. Be interested in who she is.

Be direct. Stick to the basics and things are bound to run a lot smoother for you from now on. Sign in. Tesia Blake Follow. I Love You Relationships now. Names have been changed to protect both the innocent and the guilty.

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I don't like your girlfriend No way! No way! I think you need a new one Hey!

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8 Reasons Why You Don’t Have the Girlfriend You’re Looking For

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Nov 28, - Dude, you don't have to have a girlfriend. But, you might ask yourself why do you feel this way. Most guys are pre-wired to have sex and the human race  Why don't I want a girlfriend?

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Comments: 4
  1. Shakajas

    I apologise, but, in my opinion, you are not right. Write to me in PM, we will communicate.

  2. Gale

    In it something is. Many thanks for the help in this question, now I will not commit such error.

  3. Kazahn

    What charming phrase

  4. Gur

    It is good idea.

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